Many Nigerian ladies
view married men as caring. Its either your married boyfriend kills you;
you kill him or his wife kills you. A crazed wife who suspects her husband
of cheating will go to any length to unearth the truth.
Many Nigerian ladies don’t consider a love affair
with a married man as something improper. In fact, it is common to hear them
claim that married men are the most caring of all lovers. No doubt, dating a
married man could be so much fun, but lets consider some dangers dangers
involved in such adventurous relationships.
See the reasons after the cut...
1) He Will
Never Love You Like He Loves His Wife
Many ladies find married men very interesting to
date. Marred men are known to spoil their girlfriend with cash, gifts and
affection. Some even go as far as abandoning their wives and children while
engaging in extra marital affairs. Bu hay lady, don’t be fooled by the love and
affection he is showing you. The truth is 90% of married men love their wives
dearly, most of them engage in extra marital affairs for the fun of it and will
do anything to protect their wives and children.
Besides what makes you think that a man would
suddenly fall out of love with a woman who has been married to him for years,
taken care of him when his was sick, raised children together with him, and
have made several sacrifices for him. Then after she has done all this you
think you would come and do better than her.
Please think again, after eating the honey comb
your married boyfriend would start seeing you as a trespasser and a thief that
has come to rob him of his family happiness. Ladies please shine your eyes life
is not a Nollywood film where the girlfriends always have the upper hand. In
reality; stand between a married man and his family and you may end up 6 feet
under. He will never leave his wife for you.
2) He Sees You
As An Object To Satisfy His fantasies
Many ladies wondered why their married boyfriends
who once appeared caring and loving suddenly change and become cruel. Well the
truth is married men engage in extra-marital affairs for the s**x alone and
nothing more. While s**x with a married man could be so adventurous and
exciting.
For the married man, it is an escape from the
boring routine of marriage life, don’t get it twisted, you remain a tool for
s**xual gratification and when its all over he will return to a wife he said he
was going to leave to be with you. He goes back to the love of his life while you
remain single and alone.
Then you may hatch the plan to get pregnant for
him so as to keep him. This is a death sentence, research has shown that 98% of
married men would go to any length to terminate a pregnancy from a girlfriend,
even the noblest men could commit murder in this regard. Why? Because been
pregnant does not change the fact that you were their s**x object. They won’t
even mind committing
murder if it serves as a quick fix to an unwanted pregnancy
3) Dating A
Married Man Never Has A Happy Ending
The problem with ladies who date married men is
that most of them foresee a future where there is none. They keep on hoping
that one day the man would leave his happy family and come live with them. They
envisage a happily ever after where there is sadly ever after. There are only
three endings in an extramarital affair and none of them looks good: Its either
your married boyfriend kills you; you kill him or his wife kills you. Be warned
a jealous wife would kill to protect a foolish husband.
4) You Stand A
90% Chance Of Been Attacked By A Crazed Wife
Some time ago I heard of a woman who attacked her
husband girlfriend in a bar and stripped her naked, though the alleged
girlfriend was on her period she was beaten blue – black and made to dance
while the husband ran away on sighting his wife.
This is just one of many stories of girls
suffering humiliation for dating married men. The dangers involved are
much, you stand a 70% chance of been attacked by his wife. Nothing hurts a
woman more than when she finds out that her husband has been sleeping with
another woman. The fact is a woman never blames her cheating husband for his
infidelity.
She sees him as a helpless man who was seduced by
a desperate home breaker. A married woman will go to any length to protect her
marriage, acid attack, hiring of thugs and in some cases hired assassins are
some of the many options at her disposal and even the most gentle woman could
become a vampire when it comes to dealing with a home breaker.
In a country like Nigeria where acid can be
gotten from the road side mechanic and an assassin can be hired for a loaf of
bread, why endanger your life? An encounter with a married woman never ends
well, even if she kills you, her husband will still stand by her.
5) It Is
Not A Matter Of If, It Is A Matter Of When You Will Be Caught
Many ladies allow themselves to be fooled by the
thoughts that their secret relationship with a married man would never be
exposed. What a wishful thinking. A crazed wife who suspects her husband of cheating
will go to any length to unearth the truth. She is very observant and can
detect the slightest change in her husband’s behavior. A suspecting wife is
more determined than the FBI, CIA or any security agency in arriving at the
truth and when she does you are a goner.
I would never forget what a man revealed to me in
a bar in Festac. He said after been duped by his business partner, he and his
wife began planning how to assassinate the man who duped him. According to him,
3 days before the plot was carried out, the supposed target came begging. That
was how the plot was dropped. As chilling as his story was, I learnt that his
wife has an eagle eye. Always on the lookout to protect their huge wealth and
would go any length to do so. She also knows very step her husband makes, knows
his friend his associates and all. Dating the husband of such a desperate house
wife is as sure as crossing the express road with your eyes closed.
Culled from Naij
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